Hi! My name is Diana and I am a coachee of Vicky. We met about 2 months ago when I found one of her social media advertisements randomly. It felt a bit like destiny since I have never been coached before, never searched for any information regarding this but I did feel bad in general. I am living in Amsterdam for almost 2 years, have friends but the pandemic created a way different situation as usual, as we all experienced. I felt lonely because of living far from my family, staying at home and stop meeting people, I was just right after a breakup and struggling with work as well. I wanted to change my life, get out of the depression and be happy again. I just did not know how, where to begin.
This was the moment when I found the opportunity to watch an introduction video of Vicky and her life coaching work. I had a very strong intuition that I need to sign up for it. After the video I was convinced that the change is possible but I needed some help and she could be the person who leads me through this process. We had a one on one call within a few days which was already a nice, comforting experience and there was already a connection between us.
A few days later we had our first online session that filled me up with positive energy, it totally cheered me up. We talked about my life and current situation. From the beginning she was like a friend who I can tell anything, who cares about me and who is there for me. And the main part: who knows the ’how’. She explained that I have to change my mindset and also how to do it. It is important to work on our issues, face and fight our demons and process the negative experiences from the past but we also need to look into the future, define dreams and wishes, evolve them into plans and reach them. We should not concentrate only on the bad feelings and wounds in our souls because if we do we attract negative events that make us feel even worse. This was the first big realization for me. After the call I felt strenght, hope and motivation to follow all the instructions and change my life.
In 2 days I got the news that my work contract ends and will not be extended. This was a big setback for me, I got scared and worried, I felt that the significant (last) part of my life that meant stability was gone. Vicky was there for me, I texted her and she was supporting and pointed out the possibilities and good sides of the situation, the silver lining. I started looking at it that way as well and feeling glad that it happened. Otherwise I probably had accepted conditions that I do not want for a longer period. If I want new doors to open for me first I need to close some old ones. So the setback did not last too long thanks to Vicky’s support and help.
For the coaching she prepared a personal selection and structure of all the theory she believes and teaches specificly for me, highlighting the parts that are the most relevant in my current life period. I learnt a lot about how human brain works, how the conscious and unconscious mind connects with the environment and with eachother, she described the levels of consciousness, the Ego, how to deal with it, talked about the universal laws, the mental muscles and the terror barrior. This was an exciting and interesting journey to the human mind and beyond. During the sessions I realized that many of the ideas and thoughts I already knew, heard about them, read them, experienced or just figured out by myself before, but these were separated in my head and I could not find the connection. Vicky gave me a global view, a complex picture, organized the existing parts, added new parts and now everything makes sense. I have watched The Secret movie again that I have seen a long time ago, it was time to repeat. Another important part is the ’how’ I mentioned before. For many years, I received loads of advices from different people, telling me that I should change my mindset and think positive, be more confident and trust in myself, should not think of my problems, only focus on positive things. But no one could properly give me any practical advice, how to do it, how to start it. Vicky was the first one who shared with me step by step the way and reminded me that it is a long way and hard work. But her techniques do work and through all the small successes I gained at every step, I became more motivated to continue.
I can honestly tell that I already feel changes in my life, not only coming from me but also from my environment. Everything is connected and in reaction. Since I met Vicky I feel generally better. That does not mean I have no weak or deep moments but it means that I have more and more positive, happy moments and less and less unhappy or sad ones. I learnt to appreciate every achievement and success in my life, no matter how big or eventually how small they are and with this mindset I feel happier. And that is what I spread and attract at the same time, people started showing up in my life who have a similar mindset and whom I enjoy spending time with. I met new friends, fixed some old relations and closed some unfinished businesses, let some people go who do not belong in my life anymore. Healing is a difficult and long process, needs a lot of strenght and endurance.
Today I look forward into the future, I defined my dreams and wishes, I have my plans, see the way step by step and I’m working on it every day. And I would like to thank to Vicky for everything, all her nice words, help and support that I got and get at the moment as well. Thank you very much!
The MasterLeap sessions have been great for me in several ways.
I work as a sales agent and took the classes without knowing how it could improve me and my work.
I learned how The human brain works and how to properly use it.
I doubled my sales after taking the classes, because I could fully understand one’s needs without the basic sales-techniques, but just because I understood their brain.
I thought I had a propper image of what my goals in life where, and I knew, for a little …
Now I know, now I see, now I understand and most of all NOW I CRUSH LIFE LIKE NEVER BEFORE!
Whatever you do or whoever you are … I truly recommend it to everyone!
A while ago I stood here with one question: Who am I?
Yes, a mom of 5 kids who suffered from a lot of misery what fed me on a daily basis.
It was the only story I had to tell at that time. Hoping for some pity and attention of others. I thought I had nothing else to tell.
Over those past weeks I have learned that what has happened to me is indeed bad, but I cannot change it anymore. I've learned to put that 'backpack' in the cupboard. It has happened.
That cupboard does open regularly, but I give myself a moment to feel those bad emotions and feelings but then I close the door again.
I now focus on the positive events of the past because they are in fact a lot bigger than the bad memories.
The birth of my children is one of them. I have 5 children indeed and due to circumstances my marriage failed. When people asked me: '5 children??' I said as quickly as possible: 'Yes, but all from the same father'. I was embarrassed. What if they would think of me wrong.
I am not going to do that anymore, I am proud of my children and myself and of all the things we have done so far with lots of trial and error.
I am also proud that 20 years ago I chose a promotion exam that required me to work in Etterbeek for a number of years. Organizing all that with a large family was not easy, but still I successfully did it.
The sale of my house was also a big step. But we succeeded, the kids and me. It was a leap in the dark, moving to Ghent. Beautiful years began there, which lasted for about 10 years. We had moments of laughter, joy and teers.
Now the time has come for me to say I AM M., mother of 5 children, mummy of 3 grandchildren with number 4 on the way.
As Johan Vernimmen's song: 'I want, I want to see the world', my song is: "I don't want to be overwhelmed by negative emotions anymore. I want to enjoy life. I want to do the things that I stand for. "
I will always have that caring character, that is who I am.
I want to learn to say no, without feeling bad. I want to learn not to put energy into guilt feelings. I want to learn to enjoy life again and that is already a lot.
In fact, I am happy now with what I have already accomplished.
I would like to finish with the following:
"Life becomes simpler if you don't have to be accountable for what you have done as long as you simply do what feels good and is good."
Thank you for bringing me on the path I was meant to be on all along.
I was lost but now I'm found.
And Vicky brought me there.
Without fear we would not know the value of the things we go through or even stand before.
I had a little bit fear to enter this Master Leap course, but now I've learned that "we can do it!" or even better I CAN!
This Master Leap course gave me great insights:
Fear is not real.
It is a product of our imagination.
The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future.
Fear is not real.
Fear is a choice.
This Master Leap gave me quite some insights on life:
It gave me a different view on life.
I now know how to minimalise.
I can handle some situations a lot better.
I pay more attention to myself, instead of others.
Thank you for those new insights that have an impact on my life.