"Fine is the devil in you!"

ME: “How are you doing?” …

YOU: “I’m fine” …

We all know that answer, don’t we? We’ve all used those exact words before. No need to feel ashamed about it, but hey, maybe high time to change! It’s easy to switch from fine to great, you’ll see. Just trust me.

Actually I wonder: What’s fine for you? What are you not telling me? Or what do you fear telling? Well, let me tell you: “Fine is the devil in you”. It means you feel ‘fine’ with the current situation, instead of ‘great!’. Wouldn’t you want to feel great instead of just fine?

We all know that feeling in the morning when the alarm clock sets of. We like to hit the snooze button and just stay a little bit longer in bed. It’s so nice and cosy. It’s warm, familiar, safe …
As if we get up, our daily routine starts all over again. Maybe no challenges, nothing to look forward to. Have breakfast, take a shower and hit to work. Some of us actually hate their work. So it’s a rut. But hey, we feel ‘fine’, don’t we …
Maybe it’s just the hustle of the kids, kids ‘giving you’ a hard time. Or what if the person you wake up next to every morning is boring you. Just get out of that fucking bed and start living. We rather have the security in life than go out and chase our dreams.
No more hitting that snooze button. Jump out of bed and make every day count!

Your biggest project in life 

What are you hiding? What is (maybe) making you feel sad? … What causes that feeling of being stuck? Is it your current home-situation, your studies, your job, … What is it? Or is it a combination of different things?
Could be. We all like to pile up the amount of ‘negative thoughts’. We’re champions at it!
You know what. Back off. Just back off.
We creatures are too ‘’problem focussed. We love to talk about our problems. It’s a relief. But when we ONLY talk about our problems, we contribute to feeling negative. In the end you will feel stuck. Believe me.

Life is a do-it-yourself project. Your biggest project in life. By not fighting or turning your back to your problems, you get stuck.
Is it your ego holding you back from making that 180° turn? Or is it your pride? You will finally meet your inner self again, once you start to turn your back on your problems. Make a habit out of it. Persist! Life needs persistence! It will bring you to your most desired results. Being stuck is not a situation, it’s an existence. 

What most of the times stops us, holds us back, from change, is fear. Fear of losing, fear of disappointment, fear of the unknown … Actually … Fear lies. Fear lies all the time.

We care about what other people do. We want to do the same. The opinion of others is important to us. So why not change our behaviour?
Don’t judge yourself. Search for the meaning of your life. Connect with your inner self and listen to your intuition. It crosses your path all the time. It won’t let you down. It just gives you the opportunity to make a choice. If it feels good at first, don’t struggle. Go with the flow. Connect with your inner self. If you don’t move forward you will regret it. Life it too short for regrets. By not acting, you are killing the possibility. Don’t analyse it over and over again.

So what decision are you not taking? What dreams are you not chasing? Do you really want to feel stuck for the rest of your life in just feeling ‘fine’? Just pick what you want. Just go for whatever makes you happy. Force yourself to get out of that routine. Go for something new that makes you smile every day. Make a list of how you would like your life to be. A positive list. A list you can look at every day and keep it as a focus. As once you believe in yourself and keep repeating those good thoughts over and over again, it will give you a positive attitude. You will look at your life in a more positive way. Only by signing up for that challenge, your life will start taking a 180° turn. Stop ‘boring’ people
Where attention goes, energy grows! And that counts both ways

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